DQ
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Post by DQ on Sept 7, 2010 14:49:24 GMT -5
Hi again Mrs. Cinco....
I hope you will start your very own thread somewhere, so we can chat about YOU and not necessarily about Cinco.
And again, I assure you that I've heard only loving things about you...even if he needed to vent about his own feelings, he still has not insulted you or made you seem "wrong".
I hope you feel comfortable here and share more about yourself!
DQ
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Lil
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Post by Lil on Sept 7, 2010 15:16:31 GMT -5
I'm studying digital graphic design and web design. Loving it!
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OG_Lou
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Post by OG_Lou on Sept 8, 2010 10:58:04 GMT -5
Mrs. Cinco, Lou here, the old guy. I have been friends with the group for a long time so I know how things play out. The worst thing I see is a slight difference of opinions and some "quit complaining and do SOMETHING, other than just talking. Really a great bunch of people here and on a few other forums, trust them. Make believe we are all in a college class about better relationships. We read the books and state our own individual opinions. That works for me. Now about you! I would like to read what you want from a marriage (M) and what is missing, what are the differences between you and Mr Cinco, or holding back the M. It is perfectly OK to want or not want something. When a H & W state what they want and suspend judgments, don't get defensive about their positions or beliefs, and have the assumption of goodwill (AGW), then things move forward. Lou
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Colleen
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Post by Colleen on Oct 24, 2010 21:41:20 GMT -5
Hi, Corri! What about the forums in The Common Room? We do post there fairly often (seen my "New Member Journeys" thread?). But you're right, we do tend to concentrate on what we're doing in the private area. We do need to post more interesting stuff in the public areas. Point taken! And thanks for stopping by!
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Post by Admin on Oct 29, 2010 9:52:43 GMT -5
If you all don't start posting more to the public forums, I can't keep up with y'all anonymously. All ya gotta do is join up. The door's been open to you this entire time...
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Lil
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Post by Lil on Nov 8, 2010 10:15:18 GMT -5
This is Helen Palmer's Enneagram website, and it's quite good. Suggest you start on the home page instead of the link Corri posted, as that one is in the middle of things. Go here: www.enneagramworldwide.com/Helen Palmer does something particularly useful: she renames the "sexual" subtype the "one-to-one" subtype. This shows how it fits in with the other two, "social" and "self-preservation" and clarifies that the sexual subtype isn't particularly sexy or interested in sex. The distinguishing feature of the sexual subtype is that s/he seeks meaning in one-to-one relationships, as opposed to groups (social) or in a safe place alone (self-preservation). The more you read about the Enneagram from different sources, the clearer it becomes. Her general description of the Type 4 is so "me" that it's embarrassing. To me, THAT'S when you know that you're reading about YOUR type... when you feel embarrassed, exposed, as if someone has been following you around with a camera that can peer deep into your mind/heart.
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