Post by Admin on Aug 3, 2010 16:29:43 GMT -5
Modified from the listing provided on the Divorce Busting forum:
(((((( ))))) or {{{{{{ }}}}}} = hugs!
180 = To completely reverse your current behavior
ACOA = Adult Child of an Alcoholic
ADDY = Address: Email, Snail Mail, Home, Office
ASW = Assumption of Good Will (from partner, toward you)
AOBM = Alien on Break Moment
AOM = Almost Other Man
AOS = Acts of Service
APT = Apartment
ATTY = Attorney
AWGTCHM = Michele's book, A Woman's Guide to Changing Her Man
BB = Bulletin Board
BTDT = Been There Done That
Big D = Divorce
BIL = Brother-in-law
BTO = Big time operator
BTW = By The Way
COTU = Center of the Universe (self-focused)
C = Child or Children
D = Divorce Or Daughter
DB = Divorce Busting (techniques and book by Michele Weiner-Davis)
DD = Darling Daughter
DH = Dear Husband or Deadbeat Husband
DITHL = Deer In The Headlights
DTMFA = Dump The Mother F* Already!
EA = Emotional affair
EOM = Emotional Other Many
ETA = Edit (post) to Add
FAQ = Frequently Answered Questions
FITB = Fill In the Blank
FOO = Family Of Origin
FWIW = For What Its Worth
FYI = For Your Information
GAL = Get A Life (aka "Make Yourself Happy For A Change")
Going Dark = no contact. It is usually done to see if your WA misses you and tries to come around.
GH = Ghost Husband (Not Really Here Any More)
GW = Ghost Wife (Not Really Here Any More)
H = Husband
HD = High Desire
HOM = Hold Onto Myself
HP = His or her place
HJNTIY = Greg Behrendt's book, "He's Just Not That Into You"
HTH = Hope This Helped
HW = Home-Wrecker
IAE = In Any Event
IC = Individual Counselor (or counselling)
ICQ = A chat system which stands for, "I seek you".
ILY = I Love You
ILYBNILWY = I love you but not in love with you
IM = Instant Message
IMHO = In My Humble Opinion
INS Forum = I Need Support Forum
IOW = In Other Words
KLA = Michele's Keeping Love Alive tape series program
KLA forum = Keeping Love Alive Discussion Group forum (for future)
LBS = Left Behind Spouse
LD = Low Desire
LF = Lady Friend
LL = Love Languages (book by Gary Chapman)
LMAO = Laughing My A$$ Off
LOL = Laughing Out Loud
LR = Last Resort (technique in DB)
LRT = Last Resort Technique
MC = Marriage Counselor (or counselling)
MF = Man Friend
MFC = Messenger 1st Class
MIL = Mother-in-law
ML = Making Love
MLC = Midlife Crisis
MP = My Place
NML = No man's land
M/V = From the book, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus by John Gray
NA = Not Applicable
NMMNG = book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover
NPA = Not particularly attractive
NRG = Energy
OEA = Online Emotional Affair
OG = Other Guy
OM = Other man
OOM = Online Other Man
OOW = Online Other Women
OP = Other Person
OR = Our Relationship
OW, Ow = Other Woman
PA = Physical Affair
PMA = Positive Mental Attitude
POV = Point Of View
PT = Physical Touch
QT = Quality Time
R = Relationship
RBTL = Read Between The Lines
RIR = Room I Rent
ROFL = Rolls On Floor Laughing
S = Son
SAFE = Stay Away From Ex
SAM = silly alien monkey
SBT = Solution-oriented Brief Therapy (kind of therapy Michele does)
SIL = Sister-in-law
SIT or SITCH = Situation
SITD = Still In The Dark
SO = Significant Other
SL = Sex Life
SOB = Son of a Bitch
SSM = Sex-Starved Marriage
SSW = Sisterhood of Separate Women (variations could be SDW, SSM, SDM, etc.)
ST = Sex Therapy (or Therapist)
STBX, S2BX = Soon To Be EX
STBXOM, S2BXOM = Soon to be ex-other man (or guy)
STBXOW, S2BXOW = Soon to be ex-other women
TMI = Too much information
UCL = Unconditional Love
W = Wife
w/ = With
WAS = Walk Away Spouse
WAW = Walk Away Wife (a syndrome Michele explains in her article on this site)
WB = Write Back
WOA = Words of Affirmation
WP = Warrior Princess
WTF = What the…, Why the…, When the…, Where the…,
WTG = Way To Go
YMMV = Your Mileage May Vary
(((((( ))))) or {{{{{{ }}}}}} = hugs!
180 = To completely reverse your current behavior
ACOA = Adult Child of an Alcoholic
ADDY = Address: Email, Snail Mail, Home, Office
ASW = Assumption of Good Will (from partner, toward you)
AOBM = Alien on Break Moment
AOM = Almost Other Man
AOS = Acts of Service
APT = Apartment
ATTY = Attorney
AWGTCHM = Michele's book, A Woman's Guide to Changing Her Man
BB = Bulletin Board
BTDT = Been There Done That
Big D = Divorce
BIL = Brother-in-law
BTO = Big time operator
BTW = By The Way
COTU = Center of the Universe (self-focused)
C = Child or Children
D = Divorce Or Daughter
DB = Divorce Busting (techniques and book by Michele Weiner-Davis)
DD = Darling Daughter
DH = Dear Husband or Deadbeat Husband
DITHL = Deer In The Headlights
DTMFA = Dump The Mother F* Already!
EA = Emotional affair
EOM = Emotional Other Many
ETA = Edit (post) to Add
FAQ = Frequently Answered Questions
FITB = Fill In the Blank
FOO = Family Of Origin
FWIW = For What Its Worth
FYI = For Your Information
GAL = Get A Life (aka "Make Yourself Happy For A Change")
Going Dark = no contact. It is usually done to see if your WA misses you and tries to come around.
GH = Ghost Husband (Not Really Here Any More)
GW = Ghost Wife (Not Really Here Any More)
H = Husband
HD = High Desire
HOM = Hold Onto Myself
HP = His or her place
HJNTIY = Greg Behrendt's book, "He's Just Not That Into You"
HTH = Hope This Helped
HW = Home-Wrecker
IAE = In Any Event
IC = Individual Counselor (or counselling)
ICQ = A chat system which stands for, "I seek you".
ILY = I Love You
ILYBNILWY = I love you but not in love with you
IM = Instant Message
IMHO = In My Humble Opinion
INS Forum = I Need Support Forum
IOW = In Other Words
KLA = Michele's Keeping Love Alive tape series program
KLA forum = Keeping Love Alive Discussion Group forum (for future)
LBS = Left Behind Spouse
LD = Low Desire
LF = Lady Friend
LL = Love Languages (book by Gary Chapman)
LMAO = Laughing My A$$ Off
LOL = Laughing Out Loud
LR = Last Resort (technique in DB)
LRT = Last Resort Technique
MC = Marriage Counselor (or counselling)
MF = Man Friend
MFC = Messenger 1st Class
MIL = Mother-in-law
ML = Making Love
MLC = Midlife Crisis
MP = My Place
NML = No man's land
M/V = From the book, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus by John Gray
NA = Not Applicable
NMMNG = book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover
NPA = Not particularly attractive
NRG = Energy
OEA = Online Emotional Affair
OG = Other Guy
OM = Other man
OOM = Online Other Man
OOW = Online Other Women
OP = Other Person
OR = Our Relationship
OW, Ow = Other Woman
PA = Physical Affair
PMA = Positive Mental Attitude
POV = Point Of View
PT = Physical Touch
QT = Quality Time
R = Relationship
RBTL = Read Between The Lines
RIR = Room I Rent
ROFL = Rolls On Floor Laughing
S = Son
SAFE = Stay Away From Ex
SAM = silly alien monkey
SBT = Solution-oriented Brief Therapy (kind of therapy Michele does)
SIL = Sister-in-law
SIT or SITCH = Situation
SITD = Still In The Dark
SO = Significant Other
SL = Sex Life
SOB = Son of a Bitch
SSM = Sex-Starved Marriage
SSW = Sisterhood of Separate Women (variations could be SDW, SSM, SDM, etc.)
ST = Sex Therapy (or Therapist)
STBX, S2BX = Soon To Be EX
STBXOM, S2BXOM = Soon to be ex-other man (or guy)
STBXOW, S2BXOW = Soon to be ex-other women
TMI = Too much information
UCL = Unconditional Love
W = Wife
w/ = With
WAS = Walk Away Spouse
WAW = Walk Away Wife (a syndrome Michele explains in her article on this site)
WB = Write Back
WOA = Words of Affirmation
WP = Warrior Princess
WTF = What the…, Why the…, When the…, Where the…,
WTG = Way To Go
YMMV = Your Mileage May Vary